Friday, January 13, 2017

winter break!

Disclaimer: This is a REALLY long post--sorry!
By some miracle BYU's winter break was three weeks long this year (+/- the extra days I had thanks to not having finals the last couple of days). Having this much time off felt like a luxury, and in the weeks leading up to the break I went through a number of potential vacation scenarios. It's always been a dream of my Mom's to go see the Rockettes--this year we made it happen. We took a mother-daughter trip to NYC. 

I hadn't been to NYC since summer of 2011. Coming back to the city felt like coming back to visit an old friend. Everything felt familiar, from the chapel where we attended church, to stops on the subway. If I had to describe New York this time around, it would be tiny, but yet big. Tiny elevators, tiny hotel rooms, tiny restaurants, and yet big skyscrapers, big city.

You know those trips or events in life where everything falls in to place and you think to yourself, "this is divinely blessed." That was New York for me. I joked, 'the gods are looking out for me.'

Literally the day before we left for NYC, I saw a facebook post that my melhor amiga was in the city with her husband on an anniversary trip. What were the chances?!? There was some changing of plans, and she and Mahonri were the sweetest and delayed their departure so we could spend time together. It was the first time we had been physically in the same place in 5 years, and yet it felt like time hadn't passed at all. We had ramen, talked politics and life dreams. Seriously, Mao & Shelly you are my couple goals.

^^pointing to an invisible Daniela, because we love her.

^^There was something special about being in Times Square and watching the Light the World campaign play on a big screen. It was a beautiful moment of stillness amidst the bustle of the city.
^^We visited the Christmas Market at Columbus circle and resisted spending all our money on these beautiful lamps.

On Sunday we attended Church where I ran into two of my neighbors from Freshman year who now live in NYC. Such a happy reunion. My Mom and I snuck into the ward's kitchen after the services to eat the subway sandwiches we had purchased the day before. We then caught the subway (train--not food this time) and visited the 9-11 memorial/museum.
^^Leanna & I were next door neighbors in the dorms our Freshman year!

I could not think of a better way to spend a Sunday in New York. I cannot begin to describe the sanctity and spirit I felt at the 9-11 memorial. The museum highlighted the best and worst in humanity, and I can still physically feel the reverence I felt in my heart that day. It was beautiful.
^^ The Rockettes were perfect! & Honestly, I shed tears at the end with the Nativity scene. There was a woman sitting next to me from Virginia, and afterwards she said, "wasn't that something?" & then pointed to her tears.

For the most part, we stuck to Healthy food spots (organic, veggie, gluten-free type joints), but I cannot deny my love for Burgers. Favorite food. Hands down. So, of course, I knew if we were going to have one bad meal, it was going to be at a burger place.

We went to Black Tap, and waited in line in the frigid cold for 1 1/2 hours. I felt like one of those people that Rory interviews in the Gilmore Girls revival. I had become a person who waits for things! AND, not just that, but a man approached us and kind of rudely asked, "what are you waiting for? Those better be good burgers. Good luck with that."

Worth the wait.

I got the Mexico City burger, because #mexican [pepperjack cheese, pickled jalapeños, chipotle mayo, crispy onion ring]. Mouth watering.
^^That milkshake was a sweet and salty fantasy in a cup. 

Not Pictured, but worth mentioning:
- The Emilio & Gloria Estefan musical. Of course the one musical we went to see in NYC was a Latino musical.
- The Nutcracker Ballet. I owned a VHS version of George Balanchine's nutcracker growing up and would watch it religiously. You know, the one featuring Macaulay Culkin (yeah, I had to google how to spell his name). I have that whole Ballet memorized, and getting to see it live was a dream come true.


The day after we came home from New York City, we went to San Diego. If you have followed this blog, you know that my family is a HUGE fan of Old Town San Diego. That is San Diego for us. We usually go to San Diego in the summer, but my Dad & Brother wanted to see BYU play at the bowl game. Naturally, no Flores trip to San Diego is complete without a day in Old Town.
^^I want this Nativity scene!
^^One day my I will have a Christmas Tree in my house that looks like this. 
^^😍😍😍😍😍 


Christmas Eve is a much bigger deal in my family than Christmas Day. A friend from my Home Ward posted this on Facebook, and it is too accurate & true. 
Christmas day is just like any other day for us...This year for Christmas Eve, my Mom invited over a family who used to live in the apartments my grandparents rented. The bond that my mom and her siblings have with this family is absolutely beautiful. The spirit was so strong in our home when they were over, and the memories shared was just pure happiness. We watched old family videos [like 1960s old] and watched Christmas parties of years past. There were old jokes told, and stories about my grandparents shared. I know they were there with us. 

^^This woman was like a second mother to my Mom. The emotion of the reunion was so beautiful and strong.

On Christmas day we went to church! Can I just say I wish every Christmas was on a Sunday!!! I wish there was someday to make Christmas more of a Thanksgiving type Holiday where the day of the week is the same, but the actual day rotates. I mean, Christ wasn't even born on December 25th. We also got to skype Elder Flores--last skype of his mission (where did the time go?!)

I got together with Daniela (Mejor Amiga) who was in town for maybe two days [thanks for making time to see me Dani. We met up at Horchateria a cute little coffee-shop type place with a Mexican twist.  I saw a meme about it online one day and figured the place was maybe located in Houston--turns out it's 10min from my house! Daniela and I always try and do something that pays homage to our roots when we get together we call it our #letsbesupermexican hangouts. ha! Daniela, Shelly, and I were quite the trio at BYU, so it was so nice to see both of them during one break.
^^Some of the BEST churros I've ever tasted topped with Horchata ice cream and a dulce de leche drizzle.
^^Concha stuffed with horchata ice cream and dulce de leche. Heaven.

I grew up going to MOLAA (the Museum of Latin American Arts Museum in downtown Long Beach). A friend from middle school now works there, and gave me free tickets. I treated Pay (I call my Dad by my first name, because I love his name and think it sounds so endearing [it's pronounced Pie]). My dad is a talented artist, and I knew this would be up his alley. 
^^I wrote my life motto and contributed it to the museum's wish wall.
^^Attempting to take a selfie.
^^Actual selfie.

Lastly, New Years. We had two families from our ward come over for my Mom's delicious pozole on New Year's day. We have been blessed with the greatest people in our ward! I've been very fortunate to hit the ward jackpot.

My Mom has also had a lifelong dream to go to the Rose Parade. This year was the year of my Mom's holiday dreams coming true!
^^I had to get a ghetto dog, because look at it! OF COURSE all the latinos were out there selling elotes, churros, tamales, ghetto dogs. There was a literal squad stationed at a street corner with about 10 different vendors—even the paleteros were there. 
^^Probably my favorite float. 
^^Definitely my favorite band. Aztecas!

^^Although, LAUSD comes at a close second because I am a product of that school district.

Saturday, December 31, 2016

semester update: 97th ward

High up on my list of New Year's goals is to be more involved in my ward. I was doing so GOOD last year, maybe it was the calling, maybe it was the fact that I had a less demanding schedule, maybe it was the fact that I was out of town for so many activities. Either way, I was in the ward, but not of the ward (cheeseball-y I know, sue me). 

I almost moved away. I had told myself that I would move away if I found an opening in a particular complex. Literally a month or so before school started, I got a text from an old friend asking if I wanted to live with her in said complex. I went with it, but we never heard back from the landlord, so... I didn't move. I'm still trying to figure out why I'm back. It's been the ever pressing question this semester. 

Like I said, I wasn't the best at going to ward things, but repentance is real, right? That being said, here's a photos of the few (very few) ward related things I did do. 

Halloween.
Yes, friends. I was a cactus. I'm committed to this whole Latina-inspired costumes theme I've got going on. Plus, my costume cost me MAYBE $25, and that might be a overestimate. 
^^One of the few Roommate photos from this semester, and yes, I had to pose with my hands like that in every picture. 

Lu'au.
Okay, so technically the BYU Lu'au isn't a ward activity, but the 97th ward had four representatives performing, so I'm going to count it!
^^Vaitiare, Me, and Jennie carpooled to practices together, and kept each other sane while trying to make our hip-bands. 
^^Former roommates. :)

Fireside.
When Tommaso met Thomas (One day I'll have to post about how most of the influential priesthood leaders in my young adult life have had some form of the name 'Thomas' as their first name)

Let me tell you, Heavenly Father knew what he was doing when he called me to be Relief Society President last year. There is NO WAY I could have managed that responsibility well this year. Instead, this year I was called as 'Sabbath Day Co-Chair.' I'm still trying to figure out what exactly that means, but part of what I do is put together firesides for our ward. 

I may or may not have used my calling to make my re-living the mission dreams come true. I invited President & Sister Crawford to come speak on living a "purpose driven life" and of course semi-sabotaged the musical numbers (savior redeemer of my soul + ye elders of Israel) plus made Sister Crawford's Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Muffins as refreshments. 

It was, "a good time had by all."